Thursday, June 25, 2009

Simple Ways To Enjoy Life

Hello,
These tips to enjoy life, i am going to say are very simple and won`t take much or no cash out of your pockets.
  • Just sit back and watch a movie.
  • Just cook a meal for the family or may be for yourself.(And take a moment to appreciate your cooking if anybody else does not do it.)
  • Listen to music which you like or take up an instrument or learn to play an instrument you like.
  • Play indoor and outdoor games with your friends/family/spouse/kids,etc.
  • Read a new book on the subject you like or even a comic.
  • Plan a surprise dinner for you spouse.
  • Just take a walk in the park or maybe around the block.
  • Browse through old pictures (which will remind you of old memories).
  • Pamper yourself by lazing around/get a massage/or anything you like.
There are N number of things you can do to enjoy life without money and if any of you need specific ideas, you can contact me anytime you like and we can work on it.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Having Fun In Life

Hello,
By saying having fun in life i mean many things but in this post i would focus on few.
Most important thing for having fun and happiness in life or to enjoy life we should be physically fit, other wise we cannot enjoy life to the fullest.Although at one point of time in my life i was into serious bodybuilding and then due to some family problems i could not devote time.
I gained a lot of weight,that is because i also have a sweet tooth.
Now i am into an exercising program,only cardiovascular exercises.
There is an ironic situation that for a healthy mind we need a healthy body but to have a healthy body we need the right frame of mind.
By exercising i don`t mean a 2 hour workout, i think a 40 minute brisk walk would do good initially.
Enjoying life is very necessary, as this life is given to us by God and we should make use of it to the fullest.
In routine of life we should also focus on holidays.Holidays itself is a very exciting word but by mentioning holidays, i mean trying to enjoy life by taking a break from your routine.Your routine could even be broken by may be even like roaming around the market for 2 hours or going to the mall or any small thing.
The basic motive is to change the environment, so that you don`t feel monotonous.
There is a HUGE difference in being single or married, because once you are married you have HUGE responsibilities, that i will throw some light on my coming posts.For now let us just try to enjoy and have fun in life.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

What Is Happiness?

Hello,
Whole our life we chase happiness and in the end we find that happiness is no more left, because we have sacrificed our lives and all the small moments, with parents,spouse,friends or kids.This is a mistake generally done by everybody in life, not knowingly though.
Happiness has got different dimensions it could be monetary, physical or mental, basically happiness is a state of mind,u can find happiness even in a smallest part of your life or may be anything you see, it could even be as small as seeing a budding rose planted by you.
What i feel is that, again i want to reiterate that it is not that we should not try to attain bigger happiness of any sorts, but on the way to it we should not forget the smaller ones, which are the most important.If you miss your kid`s winning football game and instead earn for say 10000$, what i feel you will be doing a blunder.
Happiness is like a flu, if we are happy we also pass it on to others, and it even lifts up the mood of others.
I think to be happy you just have to try and find reasons to be unhappy!!

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Understanding Life Part 2

Hello,
Once a wise man said "ONCE YOU COME TO KNOW THAT THE MIND PROJECTS GOOD OR BAD,YOU STOP PROJECTING. THEN FOR THE FIRST TIME YOU COME TO KNOW WHAT OBJECTIVE REALITY IS. IT IS NEITHER GOOD NOR BAD,IT SIMPLY IS. ALL YOUR INTERPRETATIONS DROP WITH THE PROJECTIONS." By Vijay Eswaran

There is a general misconception that we can be happy in life if we have a certain things like having money,great relationships and many more materialistic things of life.
There should always be a sense of contentment in you.
You should feel good about the life you have, because there will be always be somebody who has less.Nobody in this world has got everything.

Monday, June 15, 2009

Understanding Life

Hello,
Now this is the most difficult part "Understanding Life", as we can understand most of our problems, but still not all of them and on top of it we forget each and every thing except the problems of life, i am not preaching a religion and don`t even want to try. I am just trying to say now, is that we could be of any sex,cast or creed, one thing will always be the same in all of us is that we are human beings and the sad part is in our busy schedule we are somewhere forgetting that.
Now, how should we understand life?. It is simple but not easy.We are the ones who make life difficult, some people must be thinking that i am trying to say not to be aspirant, no not at all, but there is some paradigm shift required. I mean we should be ambitious but to achieve are future we should not spoil our present which will become the past very soon.
An eternity is required to pen down everything, still right now i want to stress on understanding life, in a simple way and that can only be achieved by self contemplation.
Self contemplation is not at all difficult, rather it is the most easiest thing to do. As you just require yourself for this act. Self contemplation will make your life so easy that you will be addicted to this act.You can perform this act in any time of the day but the best time is in the morning when the force of the world has not yet crawled into your brain.One important thing is you should always take out a special time for it,to start minimum 15 minutes in a day.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Enjoying life

Hello,
Today, I start this blog,to create a place where we can discuss life, day today problems,complex problems and on top that how we forget to enjoy the simplicity of life.
I want that any comment,suggestion or criticism is most welcome.I am not a doctor of some sort to comment on problems of life but i am one of you all who is also going through the world`s biggest challenge called "LIFE".
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